• Could I be hurting someone's feelings?
• How would I feel if I got this pmail?
• Is there a good reason to send this pmail?
• Would I be considered "begging"?
• Would this pmail make the person feel bad about themselves?
• Am I offending this person?

After you do that, send it.  Remember. No one wants to be sent a harassing pmail.

No one.

Ok, so you sent the pmail.. how do you reply?

At the top of your screen, a little bar will drop down with the subject of the pmail. Click the subject, and it will take you to your inbox. Click on the subject (it will be in red if you haven't read it yet) and type your reply.

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